Barbantio - Looking for > ?

I love all music but particularly the music of the 60s. I play chess write poetry and short srtories. I like the theatre and have done a bit of amature acting; my most daunting role was that of Dada in a play called 'Whistle in the Dark' by Tom Murphy and I just saw on the news tonight that The Druid Theatre Company are going taking three of Tom Murphy's plays on a nationwide tour in 2012. I am recently divorced but have been seperated for a number of years with grown up children all away doing their own thing. I need someone who would like to go to the theatre, join me in dining out or staying in depending, share things with etc. I need a reason to use after-shave again and If the truth me known I am a little bit scared of letting my barriers down and trusting again....but that's just me. I have more good qualities than bad but I don't feel like blowing my own trumpet. I believe in trying to live in the Now.....Yesterday is history and tomorrow is a mystery but life and events are constantly creating situations to take you out of the now, for example all the shops have Christmas on their agenda and yet it's not for another month which can make it difficult to stay in November. I don't know if I'm making sense or not or maybe it's my way of trying to cope with this on line dating thing which by now must be obvious is my first time.