Well im a very young 58 nearly 59yr old, not ready for the rocking chair yet either. It would be nice to find someone caring and genuine, instead of liars and users, there has to be someone out there for me, I just wish I could find him. Im a widow of nearly 9 years now and I dont want to spend the rest of my life alone, I want someone to care about me, is that too much to ask for.