surreyman - Loving man looking for an affectionate, caring lady

I'm 54 and live in Coulsdon, Surrey. I'm divorced, and neither have or want to have children. I'm retired but am kept busy making sure my mum behaves herself. I have a keen sense of humour and I'm looking for a special, loving relationship with a very special lady who is kind and considerate, is slim(ish), preferably a non-smoker and not too far away.