suzie52 - Have great hopes but am realistic

Hi. My name is Sue and I am 52 years old. While the main photo is a good one of me (taken last year) I am not a "babe" and am not skinny (nor will I ever be). In short if you are looking for "arm candy" then that's not me. I am 5' 7" and often wear 2/3 inch heels making me 5' 10" - I like my man to be taller than me (and wider lol)

I have kids and - although we are close - they have all grown up and left home and they do not rule my life. I live on my own, have a full time job (and a part time two nights a week) I have a car, do not smoke, have no health issues, am reasonably fit and exercise regularly, have a good social life, do not take drugs and am not an alcoholic.

I am NOT happy to chat to people if they do not have a photo on here and are not prepared to send me one.

So.....why am I here? Well, ideally, I want a loving relationship with a man I adore and who also adores me, someone who is trustworthy, honest, sexy, considerate, loving, affectionate, reliable, funny, intelligent, witty, who has a job (and a car) and who is a great kisser. A man who gets me - someone who makes me laugh and who I make laugh as well.
However,if I wait for that man I will probably never have sex again so, in the meantime, I am happy to enter into a casual relationship with the right man (no strings, no expectations) He must have some of the above attributes and must still be honest (and a great kisser of course) as just because it is casual it does not mean that I will go for just anything.

I have to admit that I have a preference for black men. I like men tall, broad (well broader than me) clean, to have good teeth, be honest and reliable (I do not have time to be let down).
I do not want to spend hours, days, weeks chatting on line and believe that face to face meetings are better. However, don't say you want to meet if you don't - what's the point? I have little free time and I don't want to spend it making last minute arrangments because you have let me down. I really hope I have not put you off but we all have standards and I guess might as well be up front about them. At least you know what you are getting :)