tgirlwidow - under my clothes i am naked

i am a fun loving red head i love life and all it throws at me and trust me it has had its moments now i am going to live my life to the full i live with my ex who is now a t-girl hence the title t-girl widow he is now a she and going to have a sex change we live as best friends and nothing will change that right enough about her this profile is about me and what i am looking for i wont a hunk to be honest but a loving one not a player or someone just after sex and a one night stand i wont a friendly relationship first get to know a lot about them on here then chat on phone ect then and only then i will decide if i wont to meet so it could take a while haha because i have to be 101% sure first but if you dont have a pic i wont answer you at all also donot ask me to go on msn or e mail because due to experiance i will not use it also i will not give my number and i dont want yours till i get to know you sounds harsh but thats the way it is